Many people are arrogant just to bluff, declare his status in front of you and thinks that can force you to respect him. To no avail of course. Many people boast only to hide self-abasement. Many people are stupid and blame others like coward rather than think about a solution.
The real world is full of ridicules. A smile and understanding is the ultimate wisdom of the universe. The path to everything is patience and waiting until things change. It will change at the end of the day. If you find someone disgusting, you can do the “work” way with him. (You talk trade exchange with a businessman, for example) If you find something not satisfying, think of a routine to optimize. If you find bad cooperation with someone, think what he will react under certain condition and optimize the way you work with him/her in advance. A bad beginning is not your fault. Yet complaint is. I have several videos that always encourage me when I feel really bad. Whereas bad examples to some extent, they show the power of perseverence.[1][2][3] They all share the same argument, when you feel exhausted it’s no longer worth it to persist, at that right moment things will become easier, you will be lucky dog and it’s almost close to a success. Hopefully my thoughts will encourage others temporarily stuck in the dark.