最近今年过年,老妈肺不好,今年新冠还在流行所以没有去老人家,老爸一个人过年跑到南边M山那边去放风去了,隔天中午就开回来说,没意思。我能理解他说的人生没意思,人到中年,该看的都看过了,该体验的都体验过了,剩下就觉得没意思了。
我能理解这样的想法,事实上这是不少中年人的想法。丧失了年轻的冲劲,属于自己层次的东西,该看也都看过了,不属于自己层次的东西,也不知道有啥好看的了。这样的状态,说明中年人的人生范围正在极速缩小。我觉得人生有一个很有意思的地方,不同于I think there is one thing that is amazingly intriguing, which is to see what a seemingly common thing that happened long before (say, 10 years ago) to have a huge impact on the everyday life. The unanticipation and the expectation for these kind of unanticipations really attract me to start the new day off right.(呼,用英语表达爽一点)